
Finding a peer support group for adopted people or an adoptee meet-up
8 in 10 adoptees have never (knowingyl!) met another adopted person. Let’s change that!

Adoptees have been gaslit on a grand scale - by Gilli Bruce
There is no comprehension of the loneliness and feeling of being misunderstood that impacts upon the daily life of adoptees.

"It's harder to think about a bigger trauma than relinquishment" - Paul Sunderland on adoption
Adult Adoptee Movement webinar with adoptee ally Paul Sunderland


Claire’s 2023 round-up for adoptees
Return to Seoul, the Ofsted victory and other highlights! Plus what’s coming up in 2024…

NO HO HO MERRY CHRISTMAS!! - guest blog from adoptee Angela
Does the thought of Christmas send your emotions into your stomach where it lurches and churns…?

Adopted……………And then what? by Gilli Bruce
If we want to heal, we need distinguish which bits are about being adopted and which bits are about something else...

Return to Seoul - adoptee film screening at London's ICA + Q&A with Laure Badufle
Tickets on sale now for 8th July in London, this will be a very special adoptee event.

Held - a guest blog by adoptee Helen
Could my being a fragile person who easily falls apart be a consequence of not being held? Not being held when I was born, at least not by my mother.

Adoptee advocate burnout - Claire's story
As adoptees, our nervous systems can need lots of additional care and tending. You can have years of talking therapy but the body holds the score!

The dread of telling a therapist you're adopted in case they pull the plug
March 20th is the deadline to respond to the gov consultation

Introducing Adult Adoptee Movement
Find out more about this wonderful new organisation dedicated to adoptee rights.

How To Be Adopted Lake District retreat June 9-11th 2023
Answers to frequently asked questions about the 9-11 June retreat, hosted by Gilli Bruce and Lara Leon

A life-changing day for adoptees to gather in community
Testimonials on our first adoptee-only virtual retreat for National Adoption Week

Adoptee-only virtual retreat for National Adoption Week 2022: what to expect
Find out more about the sessions we have planned for the day!

‘Did you have a good adoption?’ and other dumb questions…
Pondering this question as I contemplate my sister’s path and my own…

7 tips for adoptees who are new to this blog
What we wish we knew when we first started thinking and talking about what it means to be adopted.

Dancing on eggshells - guest post from adoptee David
Moving and ultimately uplifting post on adoption reunion and people pleasing…

An update on the Ofsted regulations that obstruct counselling for adoptees in the UK
Update from Gilli Bruce on the Ofsted ruling preventing adoptees from accessing counselling

What is EMDR and why can it be helpful for adopted people? guest blog from David Benjamin
Therapist and adoptee David Benjamin explains all about EMDR and how it can help with adoption trauma